1. Why did you break up before?
Many people get addicted to falling back to the same situation they are used to a million times…and then they cry a million times without really checking why they were in the situation in the first place. If you broke up with your former partner because of their incessant lying, cheating or simply for paying little attention to you, what makes you think they have changed now? You need to reexamine why you broke up and see if it was just a misunderstanding that can be helped or something beyond repair.